May 11, 2008

Mother's Day Quotes

Happy Mothers Day Mom. I love you with all my hearts!

Mother is the name for God in the lips and hearts of little children. ~William Makepeace Thackeray

Making the decision to have a child is momentous. It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body. ~Elizabeth Stone

Biology is the least of what makes someone a mother. ~Oprah Winfrey

Mother - that was the bank where we deposited all our hurts and worries. ~T. DeWitt Talmage

God could not be everywhere and therefore he made mothers. ~Jewish Proverb
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May 04, 2008

Taking Advice

Yesterday, I was having lunch with a friend and the idea of a direct line to God for Truth was briefly fantasized about. Of course we know what the reality of life's journey is. I often feel that my journey is most like this quote from Jack Kerouac - “I had nothing to offer anybody except my own confusion.” In other words, don't follow my advice, live your own dream.

I am not a guru of truth, nor do I think that I have many answers to life's questions. What if you took my advice on something related to your business and it was completely wrong? Consider this recent news story before taking anyone's advice. Achieve your dreams and have a Happy Sunday!

Why Apple is now worth four Dells - Fortune Online It was only seven months ago that we celebrated the 10 year anniversary of what may be Michael Dell’s most famous quote. Asked on Oct. 6, 1997, what he would do if he were in charge of Apple, he told a crowd of several thousand technology execs gathered in Orlando:

“What would I do? I’d shut it down and give the money back to the shareholders.” (link)

The irony, as we noted last October, was that Apple’s (AAPL) market cap was then double that of Dell, Inc. (DELL). Since then, Apple’s value has gone on to triple and, last week, quadruple Dell’s. Here, thanks to MacDailyNews, are the market cap milestones:

Jan. 13, 2006 Apple passes Dell: $72.13 billion vs. $71.97 billion
July 27, 2007 Apple doubles Dell: $127.81 billion vs. $63.65 billion
Dec. 6, 2007 Apple triples Dell: $165.66 billion vs. $54.42 billion
May 1, 2008 Apple quadruples Dell: $158.66 billion vs. $38.97 billion
By week’s end, Apple was worth 4.04 Dells.

Michael Dell, however, is still worth 3.01 Steve Jobs, according to the latest list of the richest Americans:

Dell’s net worth: $17.2 billion
Jobs’ net worth: $5.7 billion
And according to IDC, Dell is America’s No. 1 PC maker, with a 30.9% U.S. market share, while Apple is No. 4 with 6%.

So why the big difference in market capitalization? Apple’s track record of innovation, integration and customer service has something to do with it, but investors pay even more attention to the margins.

Apple Profit margin: 15.13% Operating margin: 19.28%
Dell Profit margin: 4.82% Operating margin: 5.91% [Source: Yahoo Finance]
In other words, Dell sells a lot more machines, but Apple makes way more profit on each machine it sells.

April 27, 2008

Inspiration

Photographic technique is no secret and – provided the interest is there – easily assimilated. But inspiration comes from the soul and when the Muse isn’t around even the best exposure meter is very little help. In their biographies, artists like Michelangelo, da Vinci and Bach said that their most valuable technique was their ability to inspire themselves. This is true of all artists; the moment there is something to say, there becomes a way to say it. - Ralph Gibson - from his book Déjà vu [cited in: Creative Camera December 1972, p. 401]

Perhaps today you need a little inspiration.

Do something fun today that you've been putting off.

Last week, being in the desert was extremely inspiring to me.

Give yourself permission to enjoy a creative spark today.

April 20, 2008

Serious Hobby


I have discovered photography. Now I can kill myself. I have nothing else to learn. - Pablo Picasso

Whoa, now that's taking photography seriously.

Autumn 1906: Picasso announces that he has discovered photography ... "When Picasso declared that he had discovered photography, he was revealing the most profound nature of his eye. For when Picasso drew or painted, he already saw what he was still in the process of drawing or painting, on paper or on canvas; his eye projected the image because it was already prefigured in its own pupil. Very frequently, all he did was to trace out the lines of what he already saw. His discovery of photography changed everything." – Fernande Olivier

Check out Picasso photos here and live your art with passion.

April 13, 2008

An Act Of Kindness

An Act Of Kindness Contributed By Lee Ryan Miller

He was driving home one evening, on a two-lane country road. Work, in this small mid-western community, was almost as slow as his beat-up Pontiac. But he never quit looking. Ever since the Levis factory closed, he'd been unemployed, and with winter raging on, the chill had finally hit home. It was a lonely road. Not very many people had a reason to be on it, unless they were leaving. Most of his friends had already left. They had families to feed and dreams to fulfill. But he stayed on. After all, this was where he buried his mother and father. He was born here and knew the country.

He could go down this road blind, and tell you what was on either side, and with his headlights not working, that came in handy. It was starting to get dark and light snow flurries were coming down. He'd better get a move on. You know, he almost didn't see the old lady, stranded on the side of the road. But even in the dim light of day, he could see she needed help. So he pulled up in front of her Mercedes and got out. His Pontiac was still sputtering when he approached her.

Even with the smile on his face, she was worried. No one had stopped to help for the last hour or so. Was he going to hurt her? He didn't look safe, he looked poor and hungry. He could see that she was frightened, standing out there in the cold. He knew how she felt. It was that chill that only fear can put in you. He said, "I'm here to help you m'am. Why don't you wait in the car where it's warm. By the way, my name is Joe."

Well, all she had was a flat tire, but for an old lady, that was bad enough Joe crawled under the car looking for a place to put the jack, skinning his knuckles a time or two. Soon he was able to change the tire. But he had to get dirty and his hands hurt. As he was tightening up the lug nuts, she rolled down her window and began to talk to him. She told him that she was from St. Louis and was only just passing through. She couldn't thank him enough for coming to her aid. Joe just smiled as he closed her trunk.

She asked him how much she owed him. Any amount would have been alright with her. She had already imagined all the awful things that could have happened had he not stopped. Joe never thought twice about the money. This was not a job to him. This was helping someone in need, and God knows there were plenty who had given him a hand in the past. He had lived his whole life that way, and it never occurred to him to act any other way. He told her that if she really wanted to pay him back, the next time she saw someone who needed help, she could give that person the assistance that they needed, and Joe added "...and think of me".

He waited until she started her car and drove off. It had been a cold and depressing day, but he felt good as he headed for home, disappearing into the twilight. A few miles down the road the lady saw a small cafe. She went in to grab a bite to eat, and take the chill off before she made the last leg of her trip home. It was a dingy looking restaurant. Outside were two old gas pumps. The whole scene was unfamiliar to her. The cash register was like the telephone of an out of work actor, it didn't ring much.

Her waitress came over and brought a clean towel to wipe her wet hair. She had a sweet smile, one that even being on her feet for the whole day couldn't erase. The lady noticed that the waitress was nearly eight months pregnant, but she never let the strain and aches change her attitude. The old lady wondered how someone who had so little could be so giving to a stranger. Then she remembered Joe.

After the lady finished her meal, and the waitress went to get her change from a hundred dollar bill, the lady slipped right out the door. She was gone by the time the waitress came back. She wondered where the lady could be, then she noticed something written on a napkin. There were tears in her eyes, when she read what the lady wrote. It said, "You don't owe me a thing, I've been there too. Someone once helped me out, the way I'm helping you. If you really want to pay me back, here's what you do. Don't let the chain of love end with you."

Well, there were tables to clear, sugar bowls to fill, and people to serve, but the waitress made it through another day. That night when she got home from work and climbed into bed, she was thinking about the money and what the lady had written. How could she have known how much she and her husband needed it? With the baby due next month, it was going to be hard. She knew how worried her husband was, and as he lay sleeping next to her, she gave him a soft kiss and whispered soft and low, "Everything's gonna be alright, I love you Joe."

April 06, 2008

Suffering

I have experienced an emotionally heart-wrenching week. Although there were many great moments of love and happiness, there were also great moments of suffering that have stretched my heart and refocused my purpose. Today I'd like to encourage any of you who are heartbroken. Any of you who are feeling lonely and without hope. My prayers are with you.

If you learn from your suffering, and really come to understand the lesson you were taught, you might be able to help someone else who's now in the phase you may have just completed. Maybe that's what it's all about after all... ~ Anonymous
We are healed of a suffering only by experiencing it in full. ~ Marcel Proust
What was hard to suffer is sweet to remember. ~ Seneca

March 30, 2008

Vision

How's your vision?

“Vision without action is a dream. Action without vision is simply passing the time. Action with Vision is making a positive difference.”
Joel Barker


“Cherish your visions and your dreams as they are the children of your soul; the blueprints of your ultimate achievements.”
Napoleon Hill

“Good business leaders create a vision, articulate the vision, passionately own the vision, and relentlessly drive it to completion.”
Jack Welch

March 23, 2008

He is Risen!

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March 16, 2008

Slow Dance

This a a favorite of mine. A timely reminder to take it slow, and take in every moment. Happy Sunday.


Slow Dance
-Author Unknown

Have you ever watched kids on a merry-go-round
Or listened to the rain slapping on the ground?

Ever followed a butterfly's erratic flight
Or gazed at the sun into the fading night?

You better slow down
Don't dance so fast
Time is short
The music won't last


Do you run through each day on the fly
When you ask "How are you?" do you hear the reply?
When the day is done, do you lie in your bed
With the next hundred chores running through your head?

You'd better slow down
Don't dance so fast
Time is short
The music won't last

Ever told your child, We'll do it tomorrow
And in your haste, not see his sorrow?

Ever lost touch, Let a good friendship die
'Cause you never had time to call and say "Hi"?

You'd better slow down
Don't dance so fast
Time is short
The music won't last

When you run so fast to get somewhere
You miss half the fun of getting there.
When you worry and hurry through your day,
It is like an unopened gift....
Thrown away...

Life is not a race.
Do take it slower
Hear the music
Before the song is over.

February 24, 2008

Use your time wisely

Sunday is a great day to daydream. I love to consider how I will succeed, and imagine what that looks like. Sunday is a perfect day to turn off your phone and journal the goals you'd like to achieve. Press on toward the finish line and be specific about using your talent. Make the most of the gifts you possess.

" Fear is a waste of precious time, for time is something that can't be earned or created, but it can surely be destroyed. Fear creates hesitation and hesitation creates failure. Success comes from those who view each day as an opportunity to come one step closer to achieving their goals." Copyright © 2007 Allen Steble

February 17, 2008

Blessed are the Happy Makers

Let us be grateful to people who make us happy; they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom.

-Marcel Proust

February 10, 2008

Happy Sunday

Plato - “More will be accomplished, and better, and with more ease, if every man does what he is best fitted to do, And nothing else.”

These are important words to ponder and apply. Have a blessed day!

January 20, 2008

Man of Value

Happy Sunday! May your day be filled with Value. I'll be in Long Beach today. Come by and see me:)

Try not to become a man of success, but rather try to become a man of value. Albert Einstein

January 13, 2008

My #1 fan's 10th birthday

Kids love to have fun. They don't hold the weight of heavy responsibility, at least where I live. My neighbor Julia just turned 10 and had a party at the beach. It was cold, dark and foggy, but the kids didn't care. Mikayla and I went to hang out. Julia's dad made a huge bonfire and the kids made s'mores. Kids know how to have fun.

How about you? When is the last time you really had fun? If it's been longer than a day, it's time to be a child again. Remember the joys before responsibility. Breathe it in and have a lovely day!


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It is the childlike mind that finds the kingdom. Charles Fillmore
You can be childlike without being childish. Christopher Meloni
Great is the man who has not lost his childlike heart. Mencius

January 06, 2008

Thank God for Mentors

I'm indebted to many wise teachers. Men and women who have shaped my character and directed my life. Consider the leaders who have impacted your life and challenge yourself to inspire others. Check out TED for examples of people doing extraordinary things to better our planet.

" Leadership is based on a spiritual quality; the power to inspire, the power to inspire others to follow." Vince Lombardi

December 30, 2007

Your Calling

May this last Sunday of 2007 remind you that you are blessed to live in America and pursue your passion. That you are blessed to enjoy good health, family and friends. Rejoice and spread love. We are abundantly blessed indeed.

" Your profession is not what brings home your paycheck. Your profession is what you were put on earth to do... with such passion and such intensity that it becomes spiritual in calling." Vincent Van Gogh

December 23, 2007

Christmas Thoughts

As many of you know, I love reading quotes. Small nuggets of wisdom with great big implications. Perhaps it's because I have experienced moments when a friend (or stranger) has spoken a few words into my life, that have had a radical impact. Many of us don't make enough time to read books, so I rely on quotes to bless others. These are a few ideas for your consideration as we approach Christmas. Happy Sunday:)

Best of all, Christmas means a spirit of love,
a time when the love of God and love of our fellow men should prevail over all hatred and
bitterness, a time when our thoughts and deeds and the spirit of our lives
manifest the presence of God. -George F. McDougall

The flow of
blessings in our
life is directly
related to
our passing
blessings along
to someone else.
-Thomas Kinkaid

Blessed is
The season which
Engages the whole
World in a
Conspiracy of love.
-Hamilton Wright Mabie

God sent a star to light the night for
The Way, The Truth, The Life--His Son.
He sent the Light of Life to prove His heart
so we would invite His Son into our own.
God has given us all the light we'll ever
need to find peace on earth,
goodwill to men.
-Pamela F.Dowd

December 16, 2007

Time Bank

Chew on this one today. Happy Sunday!!

Imagine there is a bank that credits your account each morning with $86,400. It carries over no balance from day to day. Every evening the bank deletes whatever part of the balance you failed to use during the day. What would you do? Draw out every cent, of course!!!!

Each of us has such a bank. Its name is TIME.

Every morning, it credits you with 86,400 seconds.

Every night it writes off, as lost, whatever of this you have failed to invest to good purpose.

It carries over no balance. It allows no overdraft.

Each day it opens a new account for you.

Each night it burns the remains of the day.

If you fail to use the day's deposits, the loss is yours.

There is no going back. There is no drawing against the "tomorrow".

You must live in the present on today's deposits. Invest it so as to get from it the utmost in health, happiness, and success!

The clock is running. Make the most of today.

To realize the value of ONE YEAR, ask a student who failed a grade.

To realize the value of ONE MONTH, ask a mother who gave birth to a premature baby.

To realize the value of ONE WEEK, ask the editor of a weekly newspaper.

To realize the value of ONE HOUR, ask the lovers who are waiting to meet.

To realize the value of ONE MINUTE, ask a person who missed the train.

To realize the value of ONE SECOND, ask a person who just avoided an accident.

Treasure every moment that you have! And reassure it more because you shared it with someone special, special enough to spend your time.

Remember that time waits for no one.
Yesterday is history.
Tomorrow is mystery.
Today is a gift.
That's why it's called the present!

December 09, 2007

Things to Remember

Here is your inspiration for the day:) I'm sure there's something here to speak to you. Have a beautiful Sunday!

I find what I look for in people. If I look for God, I find God. If I look for bad qualities, I find them. I, in a sense, select what I expect, and I receive it. A life without challenges would be like going to school without lessons to learn. Challenges come not to depress or get me down, but to master and to grow and to unfold thereby.

In the Father's wise and loving plan for me, no burden can fall upon me, no emergency can arise, no grief can overtake me, before I am given the grace and strength to meet them.

A rich, full life is not determined by outer circumstances and relationships. These can be contributory to it, but cannot be the source. I am happy or unhappy because of what I think and feel.

I can never lose anything that belongs to me, nor can I posses what is not really mine.

To never run from a problem: either it will chase me or I will run into another just like it, although it may have a different face or name.

To have no concern for tomorrow. Today is the yesterday over which I had concern.

To never bang on a closed door: Wait for it to open and then go through it.

A person who has come into my life has come either to teach me something, or to learn something from me.
- Unknown

December 02, 2007

The Choice

May your Sunday be blessed with this story. Warmest Blessing to you all! -Joe

A woman came out of her house and saw three old men with long white beards sitting in her front yard. She did not recognize them. She said, "I don't think I know you, but you must be hungry. Please come in and have something to eat." "Is the man of the house home?" they asked. "No," she said, "he's out." "Then we cannot come in," they replied. In the evening when her husband came home, she told him what had happened. "Go tell them I am home and invite them in!" The woman went out and invited the men in. "We do not go into a house together," they replied. "Why is that?" she wanted to know. One of the old men explained, "His name is Wealth," said pointing to one of his friends, and said, pointing to another one, "He is Success, and I am Love." Then he added, "Now go in and discuss with your husband which one of us you want in your home." The woman went in and told her husband what was said. Her husband was overjoyed. "How nice!" he said. "since that is the case, let us invite Wealth. Let him come in and fill our home with wealth!" His wife disagreed. "My dear, why don't we invite Success?" Their daughter-in-law was listening from another corner of the house. She jumped in with her own suggestion: "Would it not be better to invite Love? Our home will then be filled with love!" "Let us heed our daughter-in-law's advice," said the husband to his wife." Go out and invite Love to be our guest." The woman went out and asked the three old men, "Which one of you is Love? Please come in and be our guest." Love got up and started walking toward the house. The other two also got up and followed him. Surprised, the woman asked Wealth and Success: "I only invited Love, why are you coming in?" The old men replied together: " If you had invited Wealth or Success, the other two of us would have stayed out, but since you invited Love, wherever he goes, we go with him. Wherever there is Love, there is Wealth and Success!!!" "Where there is pain, we wish you peace and mercy. Where there is self-doubting, we wish you a renewed confidence in your ability to work through it. Where there is tiredness, or exhaustion, we wish you understanding, patience, and renewed strength. Where there is fear, we wish you love, and courage."

November 25, 2007

The Echo of Life

This is a vivid illustration to consider. I hope you enjoy it.

A son and his father were walking on the mountains.
Suddenly, the son falls, hurts himself and screams:
"AAAhhhhhhhhhhh!!!"
To his surprise, he hears the voice repeating,
somewhere in the mountain: "AAAhhhhhhhhhhh!!!"
Curious, he yells: "Who are you?"
He receives the answer: "Who are you?"
Angered at the response, he screams: "Coward!"
He receives the answer: "Coward!"
He looks to his father and asks: "What's going on?"
The father smiles and says: "My son, pay attention."
And then he screams to the mountain: "I admire you!"
The voice answers: "I admire you!"
Again the man screams: "You are a champion!"
The voice answers: "You are a champion!"
The boy is surprised, but does not understand.
Then the father explains: "People call this ECHO,
but really this is LIFE.
It gives you back everything you say or do.
Our life is simply a reflection of our actions.
If you want more love in the world, create more love in your heart.
If you want more competence in your team, improve your competence.
This relationship applies to everything, in all aspects of life;
Life will give you back everything you have given to it.
YOUR LIFE IS NOT A COINCIDENCE. IT'S A REFLECTION OF YOU!
- Author Unknown

November 18, 2007

Lessons on the road less travelled

Yesterday I gained some valuable insights into my preferences. I was speaking to Ingrid about why we do what we do. You know, why we respond to our parents the way we do, or processing our disappointments, or gossiping, ect. Then I decided to mix up my routine by going biking rather than speed walking and realized that by simply changing one pattern can offer new excitement by challenging new thinking. I realized that we are all doing the best we can. I think of humanity as "walking wounded". The idea that we all have issues that we mostly keep secret and don't talk about. Especially our fears and disappointments. When my friend Noel arrived in the afternoon, we continued on this theme. I've been processing my place in this life for some months now and have really come to understand that I am to promote healing. First my own, and my family. Preserving, protecting, and promoting. Then those around me. To love unconditionally. We really are all "walking wounded" in one way or many ways. Through love, I am living the life God created me to live. Love heals wounded people. I think that's all that most people long for anyway.

Anyway, these are a few of things I considered on Saturday.

Jack Kerouac - “I had nothing to offer anybody except my own confusion.”

November 11, 2007

Walking, Jogging, Goals, and the Power of Choice.

As I was “power walking” and dictating my thoughts and to-do lists into a small voice recorder, I considered my goal for exercising. Ingrid and I often walk fast enough to get the benefits of increased heart rate, but slow enough to talk without gasping for air. My goal is different when I’m by myself. I usually walk faster and have recently decided to jog the second part of the three and half mile journey. The reason is simple. I’m increasing the effects of burning calories by jogging. As I’m fast approaching my 40 th year, I’ve decide to concentrate more energy on slimming down by drinking less alcohol, eating better foods, and exercising more often. I have changed my goals and thus also exercised my power of choice. The choice I have to live my life as I want.

While jogging up the hills, I was tempted to walk several times. I thought about blogging this story and I pressed on, with a target in mind to keep running. It worked. By developing a goal, I met the challenge. I felt empowered, and that empowerment extended its reach out into all areas of my day.

We have within us a great power. That power is choice. We can choose what we want to focus on and how we want our lives to be. We can change our minds at any time, and revise our journey with new goals. You and you alone ultimately decide the direction of your life. Enjoy the journey.

November 04, 2007

Appreciation

I think this is the perfect thought for a beautiful Sunday. Bless those around you with appreciation.

" Respect your partner... relationships are said to be complicated... if we learn to appreciate, have gratitude and express that to our partner... relationships will be easier, go smoother, be wonderful! All it takes sometimes is a little appreciation." Copyright © 2007 Marion Licchiello

October 28, 2007

Shake It Off And Step Up

Here's another great story for overcoming adversity. Have a blessed day:)

A parable is told of a farmer who owned an old mule. The mule fell into the farmer's well. The farmer heard the mule 'braying' - or - whatever mules do when they fall into wells. After carefully assessing the situation, the farmer sympathized with the mule, but decided that neither the mule nor the well was worth the trouble of saving. Instead, he called his neighbors together and told them what had happened...and enlisted them to help haul dirt to bury the old mule in the well and put him out of his misery. Initially, the old mule was hysterical! But as the farmer and his neighbors continued shoveling and the dirt hit his back...a thought struck him. It suddenly dawned on him that every time a shovel load of dirt landed on his back...HE SHOULD SHAKE IT OFF AND STEP UP! This he did, blow after blow. "Shake it off and step up...shake it off and step up...shake it off and step up!" he repeated to encourage himself. No matter how painful the blows, or distressing the situation seemed the old mule fought "panic" and just kept right on SHAKING IT OFF AND STEPPING UP! You're right! It wasn't long before the old mule, battered and exhausted, STEPPED TRIUMPHANTLY OVER THE WALL OF THAT WELL! What seemed like it would bury him, actually blessed him...all because of the manner in which he handled his adversity. THAT'S LIFE! If we face our problems and respond to them positively, and refuse to give in to panic, bitterness, or self-pity...THE ADVERSITIES THAT COME ALONG TO BURY US USUALLY HAVE WITHIN THEM THE POTENTIAL TO BENEFIT AND BLESS US! Remember that FORGIVENESS--FAITH--PRAYER-- PRAISE and HOPE...all are excellent ways to "SHAKE IT OFF AND STEP UP" out of the wells in which we find ourselves! - Author Unknown

October 21, 2007

Working Towards What You Already Have

This story really put things in perspective for me when I heard my Pastor retell it. I hope you'll enjoy it too.

The American investment banker was at the pier of a small coastal Mexican village when a small boat with just one fisherman docked. Inside the small boat were several large yellow fin tuna. The American complimented the Mexican on the quality of his fish and asked how long it took to catch them. The Mexican replied, "Only a little while." The American then asked, "Why didn't you stay out longer and catch more fish?" The Mexican said, "With this I have more than enough to support my family's needs." The American then asked, "But what do you do with the rest of your time?" The Mexican fisherman said, "I sleep late, fish a little, play with my children, take siesta with my wife, Maria, stroll into the village each evening where I sip wine and play guitar with my amigos, I have a full and busy life." The American scoffed, "I am a Harvard MBA and could help you. You should spend more time fishing; and with the proceeds, buy a bigger boat: With the proceeds from the bigger boat you could buy several boats. Eventually you would have a fleet of fishing boats. Instead of selling your catch to a middleman you would sell directly to the processor; eventually opening your own cannery. You would control the product, processing and distribution. You would need to leave this small coastal fishing village and move to Mexico City, then Los Angeles and eventually New York where you will run your ever- expanding enterprise." The Mexican fisherman asked, "But, how long will this all take?" To which the American replied, "15 to 20 years." "But what then?" asked the Mexican. The American laughed and said that's the best part. "When the time is right you would announce an IPO and sell your company stock to the public and become very rich, you would make millions." "Millions?...Then what?" The American said, "Then you would retire. Move to a small coastal fishing village where you would sleep late, fish a little, play with your kids, take siesta with your wife, stroll to the village in the evenings where you could sip wine and play your guitar with your amigos." - Author Unknown

October 14, 2007

Across the Universe

Right Brainers Rejoice! This movie is a playground of sights and sound blended to sweet perfection. If it's playing in your city, do yourself a huge creative favor and go see it now!! If today is your day of rest, there's no need to feel guilty about going to the movies. Stop working and start imagining that all we need is love....

October 07, 2007

A Full Jar

One day an expert in time management was speaking to a group of business students and, to drive home a point, used an illustration those students will never forget. As he stood in front of the group of high-powered overachievers he said, Okay, time for a quiz. Then he pulled out a one-gallon, wide mouth mason jar and set it on the table in front of him. Then he produced about a dozen fist-sized rocks and carefully placed them, one at a time, into the jar. When the jar was filled to the top and no more rocks would fit inside, he asked, Is this jar full? Everyone in the class said, Yes.

Then he said, “Really?” He reached under the table and pulled out a bucket of gravel. Then he dumped some gravel in and shook the jar causing pieces of gravel to work themselves down into the space between the big rocks. Then he asked the group once more, Is the jar full? By this time the class was on to him. Probably not, one of them answered.

Good he replied. He reached under the table and brought out a bucket of sand. He started dumping the sand in the jar and it went into all of the spaces left between the rocks and the gravel. Once more he asked the question, Is this jar full? No the class shouted.

Once again he said, Good. Then he grabbed a pitcher of water and began to pour it in until the jar was filled to the brim. Then he looked at the class and asked, What is the point of this illustration? One eager beaver raised his hand and said, The point is, no matter how full your schedule is, if you try really hard you can always fit some more things in it. No, the speaker replied, that’s not the point. The truth this illustration teaches us is: If you don’t put the big rocks in first, you’ll never get them in at all.

Are you putting the most important things first in your life? May your day be blessed with love and contentment.

September 23, 2007

Where are you?

Earl Nightingale - “People are where they are because that's exactly where they really want to be ... whether they'll admit that or not”

As I've said over and over again, "if you don't like what's going on in your life....change it!!" May this day be the start of living how you really want too live.

September 16, 2007

Be the change

Consider the following quote. It cannot be expressed more clearly. Have a purposeful day.

Mahatma Gandhi - “Be the change you want to see in the world.”

September 09, 2007

Selfishness - The official 1st poll on Cup of Joe Photo

Polling is fun when a lot of people participate. I'd like at least 100 people to vote. Please take a moment to respond and have a wonderful day!!

Here's the idea to consider.

Oscar Wilde - “Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live; it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. And unselfishness is letting other people's lives alone, not interfering with them. Selfishness always aims at uniformity of type. Unselfishness recognizes infinite variety of type as a delightful thing, accepts it, acquiesces in it, enjoys it.”


FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO DIDN'T VOTE ABOVE.....

September 02, 2007

Imagination

Here's a few to wrap your brain around. I give you permission to daydream well:)

Ralph Marston - “There is no limit to what you can imagine. And with commitment, with effort, what you can imagine you can become. Put your mind to work for you. Believe that you can do it. The world will tell you that you can't. Yet, in your belief you'll find the strength, you'll find the ability, to do it anyway.”


Albert Einstein - “Imagination is everything. It is the preview of life's coming attractions.”


Muhammad Ali - “The man who has no imagination has no wings.”


Napoleon Hill - “Capability means imagination.”

Soar and make your vision a reality!
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August 26, 2007

Appearances

Be careful of making judgments based on appearances. There is a valuable lesson within these words.
Have a blessed day of peaceful living.

Ezra Taft Benson- “One day in the middle of an important examination in high school, the point of my lead pencil broke. In those days we used pocket knives to sharpen our pencils. I had forgotten my penknife and turned to ask a neighbor for his. The teacher saw this; he accused me of cheating. When I tried to explain, he gave me a tongue-lashing for lying; worse, he forbade me to play on the basketball team in the upcoming game. I could see that the more I protested the angrier he seemed to become. But again and again I stubbornly told what had happened. Even when the coach pleaded my cause, the teacher refused to budge. The disgrace was almost more than I could bear. Then, just minutes before the game, he had a change of heart and I was permitted to play. But there was no joy in it. We lost the game; and though that hurt, by far the deeper pain was being branded a cheat and a liar. Looking back. I know that lesson was God-sent. Character is shaped in just such crucibles. My parents believed me: they were understanding and encouraging. Supported by them and a clear conscience, I began to realize that when you are at peace with your Maker you can, if not ignore human criticism, at least rise above it. And I learned something else - the importance of avoiding even the appearance of evil. Though I was innocent, circumstance made me look guilty. Since this could so easily be true in many of life's situations, I made a resolution to keep even the appearance of my actions above question, as far as possible. And it struck me, too, that if this injustice happened to me, it could happen to others, and I must not judge their actions simply on appearances.”
Have you ever been wrongly accused? Boy, it hurts. How about this though, have you ever wrongly accused? Ouch, baby, very ouch.

Remember the pencil tip before making a judgement.

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August 19, 2007

Give Love Wings

Consider the following love story. Have a restful day:)


Letting Go
by: Dee Edgett, Source Unknown


There was once a lonely girl who longed desperately for love. One day while she was walking in the woods she found two starving song birds. She took them home and put them in a small glided cage. She nurtured them with love and the birds grew strong. Every morning they greeted her with a marvellous song. The girl felt great love for the birds. She wanted their singing to last forever.

One day the girl left the door to the cage open. The larger and stronger of the two birds flew from the cage. The girl watched anxiously as he circled high above her. She was so frightened that he would fly away and she would never see him again that as he flew close, she grasped at him wildly. She caught him in her fist. She clutched him tightly within her hand. Her heart gladened at her sucess in capturing him. Suddenly she felt the bird go limp. She opened her hand stared in horror at the dead bird. Her desperate clutching love had killed him.

She noticed the other bird teteering on the edge of the cage. She could feel his great need for freedom. His need to soar into the clear, blue sky. She lifted him from the cage and tossed him softly into the air. The bird circled once, twice, three times.

The girl watched delighted at the bird's enjoyment. Her heart was no longer concerned with her loss. She wanted the bird to be happy. Suddenly the bird flew closer and landed softly on her shoulder. It sang the sweetest melody, she had ever heard.

The fastest way to lose love is to hold on too tight, the best way to keep love is to give it -- WINGS!

August 12, 2007

Step into truth

“We tell lies when we are afraid, ... afraid of what we don't know, afraid of what others will think, afraid of what will be found out about us. But every time we tell a lie, the thing that we fear grows stronger.” Tad Williams

This is something significant to consider.

August 05, 2007

Humor

I believe that laughter is one of the most important keys to a successful marriage. My wife and I laugh all the time together. I'd like to share part of an excerpt on some of the other benefits of humor. May your week be filled with laughter and lightness.


The Positive Power of Humor
by: Jerry Aragon

HUMOR is my passion because:

- Humor is the best medicine to stay happy and healthy, but we all knew that already.

- Humor can help to reduce stress, and can aid in the healing process.

- Humor can help all of us to cope in the most depressing of situations and darkest of days.

- Research has shown that the punch line, can increase the bottom line.

- Humor can help to create a positive work place, which can be excellent for creativity and idea development. Humor and creativity just seem to go together.

- The ability to laugh at ourselves, at all the crazy and silly things we all say and do, is healthy for our well-being.

- Humor can help bring people together, and that is important in the work place, because teamwork is a top priority.

- Humor can help us all to cope with the aging process.

So, my advice to everyone out there is to take plenty of vitamin H on a daily basis.

Humor helps to make us all feel good, and can help to lift our spirits...just for the health of it!

July 29, 2007

Dead End

I was out on Friday shooting infrared with my friend Charlie. This sign stood out to me. Dead end. There were literally 4 of these Dead End signs very close by. Weird huh?

There are times when I experience a Dead End with an idea, relationship or venture. How about you?

I find that there are times in our lives when doors of opportunity close. But there are also times when new doors open. Happy Sunday.

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July 15, 2007

Moments in Life

Happy Sunday:)
I found this story on several inspirational sites (without an author credit given). I pass it along to you and hope that these words bless your day. Enjoy.


There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real! When the door of happiness closes, another opens; but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don’t see the one which has been opened for us.

Don’t go for looks; they can deceive. Don’t go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile, because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.

May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, enough hope to make you happy. The happiest of people don’t necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past; you can’t go onward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches. When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so at the end, you’re the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.

-Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away!

July 08, 2007

IMITATE THE BALLOON

Now this is what I'm talking about! However, it's said better by Fola than I could have said it. Enjoy!

by: Fola Daniel Adelesi

At first the balloon is flat. You could have it in your pocket or in the middle of your book and nobody has an idea of what you are keeping in your book. Sometimes you could hold it in your hands without anybody noticing that you’re holding unto a balloon. But the moment you pick the balloon to blow air into it steadily, it becomes impossible for you to put it in the middle of your book like you did earlier! Once you start blowing the balloon you cannot fold it in your hands as you did before! Everybody around you begins to notice the balloon. They begin to pay attention to its colours and its size.


This is how the life of a man is supposed to be. When you have an idea it is first in your book. It can be on a sheet of paper in your palms and not seen by anybody. But when you begin with your idea, people now see it. It also becomes impossible for you, the visionary, to hide the idea. The idea attracts attention itself. Just like all the balloon needs to begin to receive attention is consistent air, all your idea needs is consistent creativity blown into it. Blow creativity into your idea like air is blown into the balloon.

Air sustains the balloon so long as there is no space for air to escape. Your business also thrives so long as creativity is not allowed to escape.

Your next line of action is to shoot up. The balloon traps air inside to be able to able to exhibit its real size and at the same time takes advantage of the air to move up. The breeze does not often favour the balloon but the balloon still takes advantage of the breeze to dance in the air. You and I know so well that the balloon might be fully blown but it does not move if there is no breeze to carry it.

You do not have to start with money. Start with what’s on your mind. There are people who have ideas and are waiting to get money to start. This is why it amazes me that there are people who also have money who are waiting for ideas so that they can invest their money! If money really gets things started, the people who have money should not look for ideas.

You may as well be interested in the fact that the balloon lasts longer because of its flexibility. When it hits anything its direction changes. When you hit a hard rock while sailing through life, don’t stay put. Don’t say it’s the end of the road. There’s a long way to travel behind the rock. When the balloon is pressed it bends and flips out of pressure. Learn to endure, for sometime, bend and flip out of pressure to the next level. It’s sure isn’t going to be straight because when you have the alphabet written on a straight line, you would have to go zigzag before picking the letters that form success.

You are a success!


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July 01, 2007

Russia Reunion Party

This afternoon I'm getting together with many of the team that went to Russia. I'm really looking forward to reliving the great experience I had there, with the people who experienced it with me. Exchanging stories and memories of the kids there. They touched my life deeply and I will always remember them.

I know though that there are people all around us who need our love and attention. I often feel as though I have failed to help those closest to me. My challenge is to pay attention and be tuned into the needs around me and then pour myself out for them. Slowly, I'm becoming more aware.

What is your challenge?

It is easy to love the people far away. It is not always easy to love those close to us. It is easier to give a cup of rice to relieve hunger than to relieve the loneliness and pain of someone unloved in our own home. Bring love into your home for this is where our love for each other must start. Mother Teresa

June 24, 2007

Creativity

Yesterday morning as I enjoyed an incredibly uplifting walk, I gave thanks for one of my areas of gifted abilities, Creativity. As an artist, I enjoy the ever changing approach of documenting my clients images in fresh ways. How are you doing in this area of your business? Here's some food for thought.


Sizzle! Sizzle!
by: Neil Eskelin

Everyone likes excitement. When people bubble with personal energy, others enjoy being around them. Business firms like to hire a staff that brings zest to the establishment. Some national restaurant chains, for example, train their staff to form an impromptu ensemble and sing "Happy Birthday: or "Happy Anniversary" to their customers on special occasions. It produces more than noise. People keep coming back.

One restaurant, knowing how people respond to excitement, devised a special plan. When a customer ordered a steak dinner, the chef placed the meal on a hot steel plate. Then, just before the waiter left the kitchen, he would drop an ice cube on the platter.

The waiter was instructed, "Walk slowly to the table. We want everyone to hear the sound of that hot platter." It wasn't the steak that was sizzling, but the ice. The plan worked like instant advertising. If customers were in the process of ordering, they'd hear that sound and choose a steak. The sizzle produced the sale.

Today, think creatively. Ask yourself, "How can I add some excitement to what I plan to deliver?"

June 17, 2007

Father's Day

“By the time a man realizes that maybe his father was right, he usually has a son who thinks he's wrong.” Charles Wadsworth

“The most important thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother.”
Theodore Hesburgh

“If the new American father feels bewildered and even defeated, let him take comfort from the fact that whatever he does in any fathering situation has a fifty percent chance of being right.”
Bill Cosby

“My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.”
Clarence B. Kelland

“I cannot think of any need in childhood as strong as the need for a father's protection.”
Sigmund Freud

“When I was a boy of 14, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be 21, I was astonished at how much the old man had learned in seven years.”
Mark Twain

`One night a father overheard his son pray: Dear God, Make me the kind of many my Daddy is. Later that night, the Father prayed, Dear God, Make me the kind of man my son wants me to be.’

I had the rare opportunity to spend time on Friday and Saturday with my dad. Though he lives close, we both seem to get so busy that we don't get to hang out to often. I photographed his National campaign for President on Friday - "Remember, a vote for Joe is a vote for progress. Let's Roll!"
Dad
Actually, my father is the director of HR for Catholic Charities Los Angeles, and was MC for their Staff Appreciation Day.

Last night we did get to hang out together for dinner and drinks. ( I just noticed that he always has something in his right hand. Hmmm.)
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Like Father, like Son....
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Thanks Dad for everything you've done for me. I love you:)

May 27, 2007

Falling Trees

Don't let stress get you down. I can tell you that the busyness of life has really got me thinking. Is this what we were meant for? Running around at such a fast pace, being stressed and angry. Unconnected. Now, I think, more than ever (in my life anyway) it's so important to have a perspective on the really important matters of our lives. This story stuck with me, and I'd like to share it with you.

Falling Trees by: Robert Fulghum, All I Really Need To Know I Learned In Kindergarten

In the Solomon Islands in the south Pacific some villagers practice a unique form of logging. If a tree is too large to be felled with an ax, the natives cut it down by yelling at it. (Can't lay my hands on the article, but I swear I read it.) Woodsmen with special powers creep up on a tree just at dawn and suddenly scream at it at the top of their lungs. They continue this for thirty days. The tree dies and falls over. The theory is that the hollering kills the spirit of the tree. According to the villagers, it always works.

Ah, those poor naive innocents. Such quaintly charming habits of the jungle. Screaming at trees, indeed. How primitive. Too bad thay don't have the advantages of modern technology and the scientific mind.

Me? I yell at my wife. And yell at the telephone and the lawn mower. And yell at the TV and the newspaper and my children. I've been known to shake my fist and yell at the sky at times.

Man next door yells at his car a lot. And this summer I heard him yell at a stepladder for most of an afternoon. We modern, urban, educated folks yell at traffic and umpires and bills and banks and machines--especially machines. Machines and relatives get most of the yelling.

Don't know what good it does. Machines and things just sit there. Even kicking doesn't always help. As for people, well, the Solomon Islanders may have a point. Yelling at living things does tend to kill the spirit in them. Sticks and stones may break our bones, but words will break our hearts....

May 20, 2007

Worth Pondering

A young and successful executive was traveling down a neighborhood street, going a bit too fast in his new Jaguar. He was watching for kids darting out from between parked cars and slowed down when he thought he saw something.

As his car passed, no children appeared. Instead, a brick smashed into the Jag's side door! He slammed on the brakes and spun the Jag back to the spot from where the brick had been thrown.

He jumped out of the car, grabbed some kid and pushed him up against a parked car shouting, "What was that all about and who are you? Just what the heck are you doing?!" Building up a head of steam he went on. "That's a new car and that brick you threw is going to cost a lot of money. Why did you do it?"

"Please, mister, please. I'm sorry, I didn't know what else to do," pleaded the youngster.

"I threw the brick because no one else would stop..."

Tears were dripping down the boy's chin as he pointed around the parked car.

"It's my brother," he said. "He rolled off the curb and fell out of his wheelchair and I can't lift him up." Sobbing, the boy asked the executive, "Would you please help me get him back into his wheelchair? He's hurt and he's too heavy for me."

Moved beyond words, the driver tried to swallow the rapidly swelling lump in his throat. He lifted the young man back into the wheelchair and took out his handkerchief and wiped the scrapes and cuts, checking to see that everything was going to be okay.

"Thank you and may God bless you," the grateful child said to him.

The man then watched the little boy push his brother down the sidewalk toward their home. It was a long walk back to his jaguar.. a long, slow walk. He never did repair the side door. He kept the dent to remind him not to go through life so fast that someone has to throw a brick at you to get your attention.

"God whispers in your soul and speaks to your heart. Sometimes when you don't have time to listen, He has to throw a brick at you. It's your choice: Listen to the whisper - or wait for the brick."

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(Throwing a brick at a car is dangerous and extreme, and not endorsed in anyway by Joe Photo or www.cupofJoePhoto.com) Have a blessed day:)

May 13, 2007

Take a break and call your Mother

Whoa, sometimes the insane pace of life is exhausting. I can easily get caught up in so many different projects, that I forget what is really valuable in this life. As I'm typing this, I have so many other things on my mind as I head off to Napa for a wedding. The reality is, without my mother, I would not exist. I would never have experienced the wonderful joys of discovery in childhood, the beauty of art and nature and the enormous satisfaction of a loving embrace. Today, take the time to thank your mom for your life. You can never be sure how long you have left to say it.

Thank you Mom, for giving me life....and so much more. Joe:)

May 06, 2007

Meeting God

May this story bless your day with Peace and Grace.

There once was a little boy who wanted to meet God. He knew it was a long trip to where God lived, so he packed his suitcase with Twinkies and a six-pack of root beer and he started his journey.

When he had gone about three blocks, he met an old woman. She was sitting in the park just staring at some pigeons. The boy sat down next to her and opened his suitcase. He was about to take a drink from his root beer when he noticed that the old lady looked hungry, so he offered her a Twinkie. She gratefully accepted it and smiled at him. Her smile was so pretty that the boy wanted to see it again, so he offered her a root beer. Once again she smiled at him. The boy was delighted ! They sat there all afternoon eating and smiling, but they never said a word.

As it grew dark, the boy realized how tired he was and he got up to leave, but before he had gone more than a few steps, he turned around, ran back to the old woman and gave her a hug. She gave him her biggest smile ever. When the boy opened the door to his own house a short time later, his mother was surprised by the look of joy on his face. She asked him, "What did you do today that made you so happy?" He replied, "I had lunch with God." But before his mother could respond, he added, "You know what? She's got the most beautiful smile I've ever seen!"

Meanwhile, the old woman, also radiant with joy, returned to her home. Her son was stunned by the look of peace on her face and he asked, "Mother, what did you do today that made you so happy?" She replied, "I ate Twinkies in the park with God." But before her son responded, she added, "You know, he's much younger than I expected."

April 29, 2007

Spiritual Awareness

In searching for quotes for today's entry, I found many I'd like to share. May these thoughts remind you of your true nature.

It gives me a deep comforting sense that things seen are temporal and things unseen are eternal. - Helen Keller

God exists in eternity. The only point where eternity meets time is in the present. The present is the only time there is.
- Marianne Williamson

If we want a love message to be heard, it has got to be sent out. To keep a lamp burning, we have to keep putting oil in it.
- Mother Teresa

We are not human beings on a spiritual journey. We are spiritual beings on a human journey.
- Stephen R. Covey

April 22, 2007

Attitude

Attitude by: Rev. Charles Swindoll

The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, then circumstances, than failures, than successes, than what other people think, say, or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness, or skill. It will make or break a company, a church, a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day.

We cannot change our past. We cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. And so it is with you. We are in charge of our attitudes.

How is your attitude today? Think of three things you are grateful for today. Write them down for yourself to see and then share them with someone. This is one of the surest ways to inspire a positive attitude. May your day reveal 300 blessings all around you:)

April 15, 2007

Lady, Are You Rich?

Life is about so much more than money. May this day reveal to you how much you can truly be grateful for.

Lady, Are You Rich? by Marion Doolan

They huddled inside the storm door—two children in ragged outgrown coats.

"Any old papers, lady?”

I was busy. I wanted to say no—until I looked down at their feet. Thin little sandals, sopped with sleet.

"Come in and I'll make you a cup of hot cocoa.”

There was no conversation. Their soggy sandals left marks upon the hearthstone. I served them cocoa and toast with jam to fortify against the chill outside. Then I went back to the kitchen and started again on my household budget.

The silence in the front room struck through to me. I looked in. The girl held the empty cup in her hands, looking at it. The boy asked in a flat voice, "Lady . . . are you rich?"

“Am I rich? Mercy, no!"

I looked at my shabby slipcovers. The girl put her cup back in its saucer—carefully.

“Your cups match your saucers."

Her voice was old, with a hunger that was not of the stomach. They left then, holding their bundles of papers against the wind. They hadn't said thank you. They didn't need to. They had done more than that. Plain blue pottery cups and saucers. But they matched.

I tested the potatoes and stirred the gravy. Potatoes and brown gravy, a roof over our heads, my man with a good steady job—these things matched, too.

I moved the chairs back from the fire and tidied the living room. The muddy prints of small sandals were still wet upon my hearth. I let them be. I want them there in case I ever forget again how very rich I am.

April 08, 2007

Happy Easter

Good morning friends!

I'd like to wish you a joyful and blessed Easter!

I'd also like share my friends Brook and Alisha Todd's new blog. Check it out! He makes me laugh...

Brook

April 01, 2007

Palm Sunday

At the beginning of the week Jesus is reigned into Jerusalem as King, in a few days he will pay the ultimate price for Love.

John 15:13
"Greater love has no one than this, that one lay down his life for his friends

Once upon a time, there was an island where all feelings lived Happiness, Sadness, Knowledge, and all of the others including Love.

One day it was announced to the feelings that the island would sink, so all repaired their boats and left. Love was the only one who stayed.

Love wanted to persevere until the last possible moment. When the island was almost sinking, Love decided to ask for help. Richness was passing by Love in a grand boat. Love said, "Richness, can you take me with you?" Richness answered, "No, I can't. There is a lot of gold and silver in my boat. There is no place here for you." Love decided to ask Vanity who was also passing by in a beautiful vessel.

"Vanity, please help me!" "I can't help you Love. You are all wet and might damage my boat," Vanity answered. Sadness was close by so Love asked for help, "Sadness, let me Go with you." "Oh...Love, I am so sad that I need to be by myself!" Happiness passed by Love too, but she was so happy that she did not even hear when Love called her!

Suddenly, there was a voice, "Come Love, I will take you." It was an elder. Love felt so blessed and overjoyed that he even forgot to ask the elder her name. When they arrived at dry land, the elder went her own way.

Love realizing how much he owed the elder asked Knowledge, another elder, "Who helped me?" "It was Time," Knowledge answered. "Time?" Love asked. "But why did Time help me?"

Knowledge smiled with deep Wisdom and answered, "Because only Time is capable of understanding how great Love is."

March 25, 2007

Gambling

I find the timing of this story amusing. Quite funny actually. I'm a Catholic who, just this past Thursday, took my Grandma and my God father (who is a Catholic Deacon) out to Harrahs in San Diego to play slot machines. I am not at all into gambling. It's not the slightest temptation for me. My grandma, who is one of the most devout Christians I know, likes to play slots. Good for her, it's her entertainment. I prefer shopping at Louis Vuitton. (That actually might be a sin.) Anyway, I'll be pondering this story further as I drive out to Vegas today. Cheers.

Conservative Roman Catholic bishops in the Philippines were not amused when three nuns were photographed playing slot machines and blackjack at a gaming fair in Manila.

The church, which frowns on all forms of gambling, launched an inquiry and says the nuns could face sanctions from the Catholic Bishops Conference of the Philippines if found to have sinned.

Archbishop Oscar Cruz told local radio Tuesday that he has ordered an investigation and will take "steps on the sisters' actions."

Cruz said the church "strictly prohibits men of the cloth... including nuns ... from gambling."

Cruz said the church recently defrocked a parish priest who was caught gambling in a provincial casino.

He described as "shameful" photographs and television footage showing nuns playing blackjack and trying out slot machines at the launch of a Gaming Expo in Manila.

Philippine Amusement and Gaming Corp. spokesman, Edward King, described the incident as "innocent."

"The sisters are innocent of the ways and means of the world. I'm not saying they are saints."

He said the nuns "played without money" and denied the nuns were tricked into playing blackjack and using the slot machines.

March 18, 2007

Free to Soar

I have long believed that my destiny is to soar. If I were to be any animal, it would be an Eagle or perhaps a Hawk. I admire how they stretch out their wings and glide on the currents of the wind. Without the wind, birds have to stay in the air by flapping their wings. The wind helps them to soar. Perhaps you can be that wind to someone in your life that needs a little help getting off the ground.

Free to Soar by: Wayne B. Lynn, Life, Free To Soar

One windy spring day, I observed young people having fun using the wind to fly their kites. Multicolored creations of varying shapes and sizes filled the skies like beautiful birds darting and dancing in the heady atmosphere above the earth. As the strong winds gusted against the kites, a string kept them in check.

Instead of blowing away with the wind, they arose against it to achieve great heights. They shook and pulled, but the restraining string and the cumbersome tail kept them in tow, facing upward and against the wind. As the kites struggled and trembled against the string, they seemed to say, "Let me go! Let me go! I want to be free!" They soared beautifully even as they fought the imposed restriction of the string. Finally, one of the kites succeeded in breaking loose. "Free at last" it seemed to say. "Free to fly with the wind."

Yet freedom from restraint simply put it at the mercy of an unsympathetic breeze. It fluttered ungracefully to the ground and landed in a tangled mass of weeds and string against a dead bush. "Free at last" free to lie powerless in the dirt, to be blown helplessly along the ground, and to lodge lifeless against the first obstruction.

How much like kites we sometimes are. The Lord gives us adversity and restrictions, rules to follow from which we can grow and gain strength. Restraint is a necessary counterpart to the winds of opposition. Some of us tug at the rules so hard that we never soar to reach the heights we might have obtained. We keep part of the commandment and (pardon the pun) never rise high enough to get our tails off the ground.

Let us each rise to the great heights God has in store for us, recognizing that some of the restraints that we may chafe under are actually the steadying force that helps us ascend and achieve.